What Should I Write on a Headstone?
Courtney Cook | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsA headstone or plaque doesn't just mark someone's final resting place. They also serve as symbols, reminders of the lost loved one, and ways to honor their memory. That's why…
3 Ways an Open-Casket Funeral Helps You Heal
Brooke Brown | Educational, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsWhen you’re planning a funeral, there are many decisions to make, including whether to have an open or closed casket service. At first glance, having an open casket at a…
5 Questions to Ask When Selecting a Casket
Courtney Cook | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsAs you plan a funeral for a loved one or preplan for yourself, there are a lot of decisions you'll need to make. If you choose burial, one question you'll…
How to Personalize the Location of a Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to truly honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you personalize the service to reflect that special person’s personality, preferences, interests, and…
How to Personalize the Gathering at a Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to truly honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you personalize the service to reflect that special person’s personality, preferences, interests, and…
How to Personalize Symbols at a Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to truly honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you personalize the service to reflect that special person’s personality, preferences, interests, and…
What Clothing Do I Need to Provide for a Viewing?
Courtney Cook | Educational, Explore Options | No CommentsWhile families sometimes choose to skip the viewing, it plays an important role in grieving. A viewing or visitation provides time for those who are grieving to gather together and support…
Quick Guide: Selecting and Installing a Grave Marker
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options | No CommentsAs human beings, we have an innate desire to remember and be remembered. This is one reason why permanent memorials, such as grave markers and memorial plaques, are so important.…
7 Tips for Planning a Memorial Service
christy.kessler | Educational, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsDo you know the main difference between a memorial service and a funeral service? At a funeral service, the deceased’s body is present, either in an open or closed casket.…
An ancient process that has evolved greatly over the centuries, embalming is common in our modern world. But what actually is this process, and why is it important? Embalming is…
12 Modern Christian Songs for a Final Tribute
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsWhen honoring and remembering a loved one’s life, music plays a pivotal role. It helps mourners recall memories, comforts the soul, and brings tears to the eyes. And the music…
Do You Know About These 8 Cemetery Expenses?
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsWhen you buy a car or plan a vacation or throw a 50th anniversary party, you take time to consider your options and review your budget. If you’re planning to…
11 Questions to Ask When Choosing a Cemetery Plot
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Educational, Explore Options | No CommentsMore than likely, purchasing a cemetery plot is only something you will do once or twice in your lifetime. While choosing a cemetery plot is a personal decision, it can…
How to Personalize the Visitation at a Funeral
christy.kessler | Educational, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to truly honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you use personalization to reflect that special person’s personality, preferences, interests, and uniqueness?…
How to Personalize Readings at a Funeral
christy.kessler | Educational, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to truly honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you personalize the service to reflect that special person’s personality, preferences, interests, and…
How to Personalize Music at a Funeral
christy.kessler | Educational, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsThe funeral is a time to honor and remember a loved one’s life, but how can you personalize the service to reflect that person’s personality, preferences, interests, and uniqueness? According…
5 Ways to Avoid Emotional Overspending on a Funeral
christy.kessler | Educational, Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsHave you ever bought something because of your emotions, like sadness, anxiety, or stress? Most of us have used purchasing to make us feel better. In fact, as many as 69%…
While you may have known that caskets come in different colors and are made from many kinds of materials, did you know that there are also oversized caskets available? In…
If you’re reading this, you’re at least a little bit interested in donating your body to science. To help you make the decision that’s best for you and your family,…
The days after a loved one dies can be filled with many questions. “Should I choose burial or cremation?” “How do I write an obituary?” And for many families, “Should…
Download Your Own Funeral Planning Checklist
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsIf you want to plan ahead for your funeral wishes or plan a funeral for a loved one, the checklist below will help you in making important decisions:
When you choose cremation, there are more questions to answer than you might think. A key question is, “What should happen to the ashes after cremation is complete?” There are…
Rental Caskets: What You Need to Know
christy.kessler | Cremation, Educational, Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsCremation may be on the rise, but that doesn’t mean you can’t plan a full service to celebrate a loved one’s life with viewing and visitation. Many families assume that…
What Makes a Funeral Meaningful?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsIf you are wondering how to plan a final celebration that is meaningful and that expresses the individuality of the person who died, then here are a few ideas to…
Burial FAQs: What Are Your Burial Options?
Courtney Cook | Cemeteries, Explore Options | No CommentsBurial traditions across many cultures have one thing in common—a permanent resting place is essential for honoring and remembering loved ones. But you have many options when choosing a permanent…
What Should I Know When Considering Cremation?
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options | No CommentsWhen considering final disposition, you have two main choices: burial or cremation. But what should you know when considering cremation? With this quick overview, you can get your questions answered…
Your Guide to Scattering Ashes at U.S. National Parks
christy.kessler | Cremation, Educational, Explore Options | No CommentsThere are countless ways to honor a loved one’s life and memory. It’s just a matter of finding the options that are 1) meaningful to the family and 2) beautifully…
Perhaps you’ve heard the term “green burial,” but it doesn’t really mean anything to you. Today, we’re going to dive into what it is, how it differs from standard burial,…
Funerals, Cosmetology, and the Restorative Arts
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsThe loss of a loved one raises many questions, including what happens to a loved one’s body after it is transferred to the funeral home. You may be wondering how…
10 Ideas for Making a Funeral More Personal
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsEach person deserves a final ceremony that is as unique as their individual life. These ceremonies should reflect the person’s unique personality and honor the memories they made during their…
Know Your Rights: The FTC Funeral Rule
christy.kessler | Explore Options, History of Funerals | No CommentsIn every industry you can think of – funeral care, telemarketing, advertising, healthcare – the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) has set certain protections in place. In other words, every industry…
Identifying a Dishonest Funeral Home: 7 Warning Signs
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsMost funeral homes are staffed by hardworking, caring, and compassionate people. But every once in a while, you might come across a funeral home that does not have your best…
10 Literary Readings for Any Type of Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsAs you plan a healing and meaningful funeral for a loved one, it’s essential that you find ways to make it personal. According to Dr. Alan Wolfelt, nationally recognized grief…
6 Ways to Say Thank You to a Funeral Home
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Grief/Loss, Living Well | No CommentsDuring a time of loss, it’s common to feel lost, overwhelmed, and a little anxious. When the funeral home steps into your grief and provides top-quality care and compassionate service,…
6 Ways to Personalize a Casket
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen planning a funeral service, the best way to create a truly unique, one-of-a-kind experience is to add personalized touches throughout the events. That might mean selecting special music, choosing…
130+ Questions Your Family Will Have to Answer After a Death
christy.kessler | Estate Planning, Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsMost people don’t realize just how many questions surviving family members will need to answer following the death of a loved one. That’s why advance preparation is so important. From…
11 Qualities to Look for in a Funeral Director
Daniel Zepeda | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsLosing a loved one can bring pain, grief, uncertainty, and confusion. A loss can also leave you with the responsibility of planning a funeral, requiring you to answer questions that…
Understanding Half-Couch versus Full-Couch Caskets
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsAfter losing a loved one, a viewing or visitation can be a sweet moment of remembrance and an opportunity to say a final goodbye in person. As you put together…
6 Ways You Can Save Money with Funeral Preplanning & Prefunding
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsA recent survey revealed that while more than 50% of participants said they were likely to preplan their own funeral, only 7% of had actually done it. Many people understand…
3 Funeral Insurance Options You Should Know About
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsIf you’re reading this, then you understand how important it is to prepare for the future. You know that taking out an insurance policy to cover the cost of a…
9 Outdoor Memorial Ideas to Honor a Loved One
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Grief/Loss, Memorial | No CommentsWhen you’re grieving the death of a loved one, it helps to find just the right way to honor their life. Sometimes that may mean painting a portrait, creating a…
Gravestone Recipes: Adding a Sweet Touch to a Memorial Marker
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Memorial, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen planning a loved one’s funeral or memorial services, personalization is key to creating an event that is both healing and meaningful. The same is true when you’re considering what…
Can You Name the 4 Different Types of Cemeteries?
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Memorial, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsA cemetery is a cemetery, right? Well, to a degree, that’s true. However, there are actually several different types of cemeteries you should know about. Today, we’ll discuss the 4…
What to Expect at a Preplanning Appointment
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsDid you know you can put your funeral wishes in writing in advance? That’s where a preplanning specialist can help! They specialize in sitting down with you (and your family,…
What’s the Difference Between a Funeral and Memorial Service?
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsHave you ever planned a funeral or memorial service? If you haven’t, then you’re in good company. Most people haven’t. That's why it’s not surprising that you may not know…
After the death of a loved one, surviving family members must often answer between 100 – 200 questions before any kind of funeral or memorial service can take place. What’s…
It’s impossible to know what circumstances you’re going to face after a loved one’s death. In some cases, it may become necessary to transport a loved one’s remains across a…
6 Ways to Personalize a Memorial Marker
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Memorial, Personalization, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen visiting a cemetery, it can seem like your options are limited when choosing a memorial marker, but that’s not true. There are many options for creating a personalized monument…
What You Need to Know About Flying with Cremated Remains
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options | No CommentsDid you know that it’s possible to fly – both domestically and internationally – with cremated remains? While flying with cremated remains may not be something you've ever thought about…
Understanding Prepaid Funeral Insurance Policies
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsWe all know the value of being prepared. We buy car insurance, fire insurance, health insurance, life insurance – all just in case. When you stop to think about it,…
What Services Do Funeral Homes Offer?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsYou may think that funeral homes only plan and facilitate funeral and memorial services, but that’s not all they do. In fact, funeral homes have a wider range of services…
What Do Funeral Directors Do?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsHave you ever wondered exactly what funeral directors do? To most people, funeral service is a bit of a mystery. That's because a vast majority of people have never had…
When choosing burial, there are many decisions to make, including whom to select as pallbearers. Whether you’re prearranging your funeral wishes or planning a funeral for a recently lost loved one, it’s important to select pallbearers who can fulfill their…
Protecting Your Family If Death Occurs Away from Home
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsIf you’re like many of us, you spend quite a bit of time traveling out of town. You may not be getting on a plane every time you travel, but…
Applying for a FEMA COVID-19 Funeral Reimbursement
christy.kessler | COVID-19, Explore Options | No CommentsSo many families across the United States have been hit hard by COVID-19 - emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. Under the Coronavirus Response and Relief Supplemental Appropriations Act of 2021…
Participating in a funeral as a pallbearer is a time-honored tradition and a sign of trust. It’s both an honor and a responsibility. After all, you have been asked to…
5 Alternative Methods of Final Disposition
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsChoosing which method of final disposition is right for you is a very personal decision. For some, burial is most desirable, while for others, cremation is best. There is no…
Eulogies & Sharing a Loved One’s Legacy
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen a close loved one dies, you may be asked to give a eulogy. So, you may be wondering, where do I start? First of all, what is a eulogy?…
What Do You Do When Someone Dies?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsIf you’ve recently lost someone you love, you have our sincerest sympathies. For many of us, dealing with death and all the logistical and emotional details associated with it is…
Why Should Veterans Plan Ahead?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Veterans | No CommentsAs veterans, you gave a part of your life in committed service to our nation, and we offer you a sincere and heartfelt thank you. But did you know that…
Top 15 Bible Verses for a Celebration of Life Service
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsA Christian funeral service is not complete without a few readings from scripture. Readings can help mourners process the loss and find meaning in the midst of pain. Additionally, the…
All You Need to Know About Funeral Programs, Prayer Cards, and More
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals | No CommentsWhether you are planning ahead for funeral wishes or planning a final tribute for a loved one, you may have noticed that many funeral or memorial packages include memorial stationery.…
How to Plan a Healing Funeral if You Are Not Religious
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsFuneral rites have a rich history rooted in spiritual and religious traditions. So, what do you do for a funeral if you are not religious? Some families may consider skipping…
10 Ways to Use Photos to Personalize a Service
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsFuneral and memorial services are about remembering and cherishing a loved one’s memory and honoring their life. Dr. Alan Wolfelt, a nationally recognized grief expert, author, and counselor, often says,…
Estate Planning for the Blended Family
christy.kessler | Estate Planning, Explore Options, Precare | No CommentsIn today’s world, it’s more and more common to be part of a blended family. For many families, being blended creates a sense of belonging and harmony. For others, it…
What You Need to Know About Burial at Sea
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsAfter a loss, we feel both a deep sense of loss and an innate desire to honor the memory of the person we love. We want to remember them for…
Permanent Placement Options for Cremated Remains
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Cremation, Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools, Precare | No CommentsThese days, it’s not uncommon for the family to keep the cremated remains of a loved in an urn at home. While keeping a loved one nearby can be helpful…
The 5 Basic Steps of Funeral Planning
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsThinking about planning a funeral may make you feel anxious, especially if you are arranging a funeral for a loved one who has recently died. The whole thing just sets…
3 Reasons to Have a Visitation
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Planning Tools | No CommentsHave you ever wondered about the purpose of a visitation when a loved one dies? Why don't we just skip to the funeral? This article will share three key reasons…
Why Does Funeral Personalization Matter?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Grief/Loss, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No Comments“I encourage you to slow down, take a deep breath and focus on what is really important—what is essential—about the funeral you are planning. What is essential is the life…
How to Personalize a Funeral When an Infant Dies
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Grief/Loss, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization | No Comments“Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart.” – A.A. Milne Losing an infant or a small child is one of the most difficult situations to…
For many of us, the ins and outs of funeral planning are unfamiliar and confusing. We don’t know where to start or even what all of our options are. Should…
7 Ways to Pay for Unexpected Funeral Expenses
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen a loved one dies, the last thing you want to do is think about how to pay for the funeral, especially if funds are tight and the death is…
Remembering Our Loved Ones Through Photos
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Grief/Loss | No Comments“When you photograph a face… you photograph the soul behind it.” – Jean-Luc Godard Today, we can’t imagine a world without photographs. They capture the moments of our lives –…
6 Things You Probably Didn’t Know about Funeral Goods and Services
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsMost of us will only plan a handful of funerals in our lifetime, and because it is so infrequent, we often don’t know what to do, how to do it,…
Walking a Child Through a Funeral: 9 Tips for Parents
christy.kessler | Children, Explore Options, Living Well | No CommentsMost of us dearly love our children and want to protect them from the difficult parts of life. But understanding that a funeral is a rite of passage and an…
10 Reasons to Plan Ahead
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsA funeral is an important event for those who have lost someone loved. It’s a time to gather together, to honor the memory of the one who has died, to…
10 Questions to Ask Before You Prepay Your Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsA recent study by the Funeral and Memorial Information Council found that nearly 70% of adults over the age of 40 say they would prefer to prearrange their own funeral.…
5 Reasons Why People Don’t Plan Ahead for Funeral Wishes
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsLife is full of to-do lists, errands, activities, hobbies, and gatherings. While many of these things bring us great joy, some of them simply need doing. While we may not…
Cremation and the Importance of Ceremony
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Plan Ahead | No CommentsCremation is a rapidly growing trend in the United States, with just over 50% of those who died in 2016 selecting cremation for their final disposition. However, many families who…
The Importance of a Memorial Tribute Video
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Memorial, Planning Tools | No Comments“The death of someone loved changes our lives forever. And the movement from the ‘before’ to the ‘after’ is almost always a long, painful journey. From my own experiences with loss…
Should a Funeral Be Efficient or Effective?
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Plan Ahead | No CommentsAt some point in life, we’ve all attended a funeral or memorial service that seems to leave us feeling empty or numb. Why? Usually, it has to do with whether…
Exploring Your Release Ceremony Options
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Plan Ahead | No CommentsLosing a loved one creates a painful hole in our hearts that we often don't know how to fill. However, through the process of grief and mourning, we can come…
7 Reasons to Help Parents Preplan for Funeral Wishes
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsLife is busy, and many things demand your attention. In the midst of everything – daily chores, kids, work, friends, extracurricular activities – caring for an aging parent takes a…
5 Meaningful Actions to Personalize a Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsThroughout history, many things have changed, but one thing that has endured is the funeral ceremony. At some level deep down, we all know that a funeral is important. It’s…
9 Preplanning Mistakes to Avoid
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsAccording to the National Funeral Directors Association, 62.5% of consumers feel that it is important to share funeral wishes with family members, but only 21.4% did so in 2017. That…
Grave Liners & Burial Vaults: What’s the Difference?
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsFor many of us, the ins and outs of funeral planning are unfamiliar and confusing. We don’t know where to start or even what all of our options are. Should…
Myth vs. Fact: The Truth About Final Expense Plans
christy.kessler | Estate Planning, Explore Options, Plan Ahead | No CommentsPaying for a funeral in advance doesn’t have to be a difficult task. All you really need is a knowledgeable funeral professional who thoughtfully educates you on all the options…
5 Ways to Pay for a Funeral
Heather Guitar | Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsMany people do not realize that payment for a funeral is due prior to services being rendered. So, having a financial plan in place to pay for a funeral is…
Selecting a Cremation Urn
christy.kessler | Cremation, Explore Options, Plan Ahead, Planning Tools | No CommentsAccording to the National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA), cremation has continued to grow as a choice for final disposition. In fact, in the 2017 Cremation and Burial Report, the NFDA…
6 Ways to Personalize a Funeral
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Meaningful Funerals, Personalization | No CommentsA funeral, though a time of mourning, can still be filled with celebration and remembrance. It’s a time to honor the one who has died but also an opportunity to…
5 Reasons to Establish a Permanent Memorial
christy.kessler | Cemeteries, Explore Options, Memorial, Planning Tools | No CommentsWhen we lose someone we love, our feeling of connection to them continues, even though they are no longer with us physically. It is this connection that contributes to our…
Top 10 Characteristics to Look for in a Funeral Home
christy.kessler | Explore Options, Planning Tools | No CommentsFor many of us, the death of a loved one is one of the most difficult life events we face. We don’t want to think about it, but there is…